Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Digital Etiquette and Cyberbullying

Digital etiquette is the awareness of being a responsible online citizen. For example, digital etiquette can be shown in many different ways.  For example, if you see someone getting bullied online, you should stand up for the person being bullied and tell the bully that what they’re doing isn’t right and they need to stop. Online bullying (also known as cyberbullying) is a big problem in today’s generation. We’re finding out more and more that cyberbullying is a huge problem and more people need to take a stand and do something about it. If you see someone getting bullied online, whether you like that person or not, you should stand up for them and help them out. Just think if you were in the shoes of the person getting bullied, you would want someone to stand up for you right? If so, then you should do the same for someone else. 
Meanness is saying or saying or doing something with the intent of hurting someone. Meanness can be as simple as saying something rude or mean to somebody or something as bad as bullying someone. Meanness presents its self in many different ways, shapes, and forms. The most common example of meanness is when someone says something mean or hurtful to someone. Even though they don’t always mean for it to be mean, it’s still mean regardless of how you meant it. The most common place for meanness is in school. Just walking through the hallways, I can hear people making rude and hurtful comments to people, and talking about people behind their back. This will be a constant-never ending battle. People have always been mean, and will always be mean. No matter how hard we try to prevent it, and stop it from happening, it’s going to happen. 
Meanness online is also another huge problem in modern day society. Online meanness is more commonly referred to as cyberbullying. Cyberbullying is the use of electronic communication to bully a person, usually by sending messages of an intimidating or threatening nature. This also includes saying mean or inappropriate on social networks such as twitter, facebook, ect.  When online, there are many different steps that you can take to not be mean.  Don’t say anything that could possibly be hurtful to anyone in any way, shape or form. If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.
When online you can either be an upstander or a bystander. An upstander is a person who stands up for something or someone. A bystander remains inactive and just ignores the situation. For example, if someone sees bullying happen online, to become an upstander you would stand up to the bully and tell him/her that what she is doing isn’t right and needs to stop. A bystander would just ignore the situation and keep on scrolling to see what else is going on in the feed. There are a few to become an upstander, first don’t laugh and don’t encourage the bully in any way, help the victim in any way that you can and lastly and most importantly, tell an adult so the victim can get support and help.  

                  In conclusion, if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.  Let’s all try and make the online community a safe and enjoyable place for everyone to be!